{"id":3846,"date":"2018-02-23T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2018-02-23T05:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubfriends.net\/?p=3846"},"modified":"2018-02-22T23:47:34","modified_gmt":"2018-02-23T04:47:34","slug":"confessions-of-a-ubf-leader-follow-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/confessions-of-a-ubf-leader-follow-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Confessions of a UBF Leader&#8211; Follow Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-958\" src=\"http:\/\/ubfriends.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/co.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"456\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/co.png 456w, http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/co-256x300.png 256w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 456px) 100vw, 456px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Getting some things off my chest.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I was a UBF shepherd along with others at El Camino UBF. I committed the following malevolent acts against newbie UBF members, college students on campus, ex-members, and to my own students (&#8220;sheep&#8221;).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Heavy shepherding<\/li>\n<li>Spiritual Abuse<\/li>\n<li>Deception &amp; Lying<\/li>\n<li>Spying<\/li>\n<li>Defending UBF<\/li>\n<li>Manipulation<\/li>\n<li>being narrow-minded<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>To college students:<\/p>\n<p>As of mid-2016 I no longer recruit anyone to the abusive UBF cult. I wish I can apologize and make up for wasting other students&#8217; time with my questioning and bible studies.<\/p>\n<p>To the newbie members of El Camino UBF:<\/p>\n<p>I regret my acts towards you newbie members. I have come to realize that most of you weren&#8217;t in on John Baik&#8217;s schemes. I can&#8217;t say I&#8217;m a changed person but I can be one with open ears. Whether you believe me or not I will let you decide on that.<\/p>\n<p>Regarding my former students:<\/p>\n<p>I have personal apologized to all of them via text or in person. Some of them forgave me while others want nothing to do with me. And for the latter I respect their decision. To this day I no longer contact my former students as a pardon for violating their privacy.<\/p>\n<p>To EX-UBF:<\/p>\n<p>My passion for being Mr. Anti-UBF has at times gone too far and has sometimes lead to the hindrance of my friendships with ex-members and even causing ex-members internal conflict. I do regret for causing any ex-member inner conflict, headaches, letting my emotions cloud my judgment, and the like.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pbs.twimg.com\/media\/CY46C5-WsAAx881.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I never again want to be that kind of person.<\/p>\n<p>This is the short version of my confessions to the people mentioned above. The Long version will be published in my memoir in the future.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting some things off my chest.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":212,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[143],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-testimony"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3846"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/212"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3846"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3846\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}