One thing I learn from the Joe P. case is that we can’t control our legacy. Even if we use all our ambition and live as good as possible, one decision can become all that people remember.  I believe God also gave Joe P. two legacies: on one hand he could be held up as a model for good character, ambitious hard work and faithful persistence. I think his life has much to teach us in that regard. 

Yet the other part of Joe P.’s legacy is tied to his part in the scandal and the ensuing cover-up. I believe God allowed this to happen as a lesson for all people in leadership or who have authority: protect the innocent!  

I see a dire lesson here for organizations too. Like an ambitious steam-roller, the Penn State football program fostered an environment where abuse could not only occur, but could be covered up for many years. All the while people praised Joe P. and Penn State for its football victories, numerous people knew the dark side. They watched Joe P. get praised and trophies paraded while they kept the pain hidden inside them. At each graduation, they heard about how good Joe P. is and how wonderful their football team is, all the while the darkness ate away at their soul.

Organizations (religious or not) really need to remember that people are far more valuable than goals and victory. At what cost do we accomplish our goals? Is it worth it? At what point do we give up our goals and plans to God and see the hurt around us? When do we stop pretending everything is glorious and wonderful? When will someone scream “stop” and pay attention to the wounded? 
 

I sought the Lord, and afterward I knew
he moved my soul to seek him, seeking me.
It was not I who found, O Savior true;
no, I was found of thee.

What helps me the most daily is in reading sermons, books, commentaries, blogs, which helps me to delight in the Bible, in the Gospel, and in Jesus. Also, preparing for our weekly Bible studies and weekly sermons helps to keep me on track day by day.

My “excuse” is that after giving the sermon on Sun, I usually feel a little spent emotionally. Then I realize how feeble I am, compared with some pastors who give multiple sermons on Sun. I just read yesterday that Mark Driscoll gave 7 one hour sermons every Sun from morning to night for about a decade!

My short answer is that “No” it is not a sin to watch 2 football games on Sun. For myself, I pray I won’t do it again next year. Please remind me!

Sorry, Mary, if I confused you. I really liked and am moved by your first comment, which expresses Jesus’ love for you first, and your confession of love for Jesus in response.