Comments on: 12 Things UBF Taught Me (2) http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/ for friends of University Bible Fellowship Wed, 21 Oct 2015 04:34:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.3.1 By: Vitaly http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9449 Fri, 26 Jul 2013 04:47:16 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9449 @Green, I also agree with you. At the same time as other have shared already I can not see in ubf a leadership but Korean (or under-Korean which is not leadership). And I acknowledge that I being a non-Korean sub-leader in my chapter did many ugly things (sins) of abuse and so I believe did many other “native shepherds”. But I repented and apologied and talked to all my former sheep and even other shepherds and sheep who were not “mine” in ubf. It gives much freedom in discussing ubf problems now for we are not a part of them any longer. The problem with Korean leadership in ubf is that it is Confusian in its essence and so is not able to act in a Christian way (for example to repent and apology like Zacchaeus who abused many, instead ubf leaders choose the way of pharisees who opposed Jesus and were righteous in their own eyes anyway).

“You and I can be the ones who make the same mistakes if we do not watch out” – Exactly! And I think that former ubf people are experts now in discerning such mistakes and can be very helpful to churches for they know how it should not be in Christian churches and are very sensitive about abuse.

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By: gc http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9448 Fri, 26 Jul 2013 02:07:40 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9448 Green, I also agree with you. However, it must be openly discussed that the influence on UBF’s origins only come from one American woman Sarah Barry. The rest of the development was established by and among Koreans. As a consequence (for better or worse) the social culture of UBF is Korean. It is no surprise that growing shepherds comply with the standard and social culture. We are all sinful humans who lust after power, recognition and a playground to fulfill our needs.

I am not surprised that an American shepherd was being abusive – that was how he was taught within the system. We have discussed the character of people before in context with the system. People are not bad, nor are they the problem – but the system itself is flawed from the beginning. If there is a cultural influence it is Korean – sorry!

How many similarities for experience can you find between UBF social culture and the comments on this blog for teachers?
http://hagwon.reliableteacher.com/
Just look something up.

For one I love Korea, Koreans and most definately my wife and family, but I am not going to sugar coat the problems. The problem is systematic. People are objects, be they American, Russian, Korean, South African, Mexican etc…..
As long as people justify their actions in the name of one sober man trying to keep unity and peace in the church how can we have a sensible discussion about this? Abuse is abuse.

We must refer to Joe’s earlier comments on Brian’s 6th article about spiritual order. It illustrates quite well how efforts to follow world mission have been stifled by such a system. Brian’s sarcasm might bother some when he says that American’s are the worst, but this is often expressed in the dominant Korean social culture of UBF. To reinforce your point however not all Koreans are alike and many do not like UBF either.

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By: joshua http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9447 Fri, 26 Jul 2013 00:41:33 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9447 @Green: I agree with you. We are all human. No one criticizes UBF missionaries for being imperfect. We are critical rather because their weaknesses, sins, failures, over-reaching abuse of authority, etc., and that of the ministry are not properly identified, renounced, repented of, and moved away from. Instead, all kinds of explanations, excuses, and appeasements are produced while the philosophy of life and ministry that produced the problems are enshrined and exalted. “There is no perfect church” is used to excuse wrong-doing. Why not just repent and come into the light of truth and freedom, where the blood of Jesus makes us perfect and bonds us together in perfect unity, because he has imputed his perfect righteousness to us?

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By: big bear http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9446 Thu, 25 Jul 2013 21:30:37 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9446 Green…there is no excuse for abusive leaders…the abuse is real and yet there is no acknowledgment of wrong doing in UBF by its leaders or apology…this is scary..yes we are all sinners and yes we are all capable of doing evil in the Lord’s eyes…but deliberate and continual abuse is unacceptable for leaders…they need to step down..maybe get away from UBF for awhile until they get healed in God’s love…

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By: Green http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9445 Thu, 25 Jul 2013 20:45:12 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9445 I am neither a nationalist nor a racist. We know that there are no differences in Christ. If we are Christian, we are in the same family.
I don’t deny there are cultural barriers and even individual differences in one’s world view, values and backgrounds that should be overcome by learning from Jesus.
I agree that authoritarian leadership and spiritual abuse should be discouraged. Also we should be keenly aware of Satan behind division, misunderstanding, bitterness and a vengeful spirit.
When Hitler was, Bonhoeffer was too. Don’t think all Koreans are same.
People can make mistakes due to unbearable burdens, imbalance between input and output, out of ignorance, idolizing the ministry, selfish ambition, pride… etc.
The place we live in is a fallen world and there will be no utopian ministry. We will suffer from sin and its consequences until last day. We should deal with them wisely.
I also have had to endure the pain while I was in the ministry under the leadership of an American shepherd.
I don’t think the issues you guys speak about apply only to Koreans or UBF. They are from the sinful man’s mentality.
No one is completely safe. You and I can be the ones who make the same mistakes if we do not watch out.

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By: Brian Karcher http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9441 Thu, 25 Jul 2013 18:38:43 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9441 Speaking of “doing world mission”, here is a list of the all-time top 20 countries visiting here (from 6/2010 to 7/2013, about 3 years). South Korea seems quite interested :)

The overall, 3 year average time spent here per session is 7 mins 2 seconds.

1 United States
2 Canada
3 Russia
4 Germany
5 Ukraine
6 Philippines
7 South Korea
8 India
9 (unknown)
10 United Kingdom
11 Australia
12 France
13 Malaysia
14 South Africa
15 Singapore
16 Japan
17 Brazil
18 Belgium
19 Indonesia
20 Hong Kong

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By: Vitaly http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9428 Thu, 25 Jul 2013 12:53:15 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9428 ubf’s world mission efforts have brought more than a thousand Koreans to the USA, Canada and Europe. Some missionaries admit that they went out as missionaries with the idea of a better and more comfortable life. And they were going to serve students with the “sacrificial” and even “martydom” soldier spirit. SL mentioned in his messages that many ubf missionaries in the US hadn’t had a sheep for 23 years being in the US. Joe mentioned that ubf’s statistics include every Korean who went out of Korea or was born out of Korea as a missionary. That is understandable if you know ubf’s love for numbers and its seeking glory among Korean churches. So ubf’s world mission seems to be Korean mission and to be Korean outside Korea is a more important thing than being a true missionary actually. And “mission” in ubf is based on an interpretation of “making disciples” as that “people are not able to become disciples of Jesus themselves and we ubf missionaries are called to make them disciples through our training”. This kind of “making” and “training” have nothing to do with Jesus’ words. But that’s ubf’s “world mission”.

And I thought about God’s word “My house will be called a house of prayer for all nations”. This word teaches that God’s house should and must be open for people from all nations so that they would come and pray there. God’s house is not for the Jews only and surely not for Koreans only. I have a question, “Can you being a member of ubf see that non-Korean people are free to come to ubf centers and pray there the way they see right before the Lord?”. My personal answer is “No way!”. Ubf is not for all nations, it is for Koreans only and for those who are not against humbly feeling themselves of an under-Korean nation.

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By: Chris http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9211 Sat, 13 Jul 2013 09:09:12 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9211 Or, if you really want to focus your life on world mission and evangelization, and you are able to do that, then simply don’t marry. It’s not for all, but for some. But *if* you marry, then take your marriage and family seriously and understand raising your kids and loving your wife as your first responsibility. You have the freedom to choose, marry or stay unmarried, both is blessed by the Bible. But you can’t have it both, marry and then live as if your are unmarried. UBF really needs to “go back to the Bible”.

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By: big bear http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9210 Fri, 12 Jul 2013 22:37:36 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9210 WORLD MISSION STARTS WITH THE FAMILY UNIT…NOT WITH DYSFUCTIONAL FAMILIES….NOT TO LOOK DOWN ON FAMILY AND CHILDREN….I think World Mission starts here

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By: joshua http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9209 Fri, 12 Jul 2013 04:08:21 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9209 Thanks Brian. World mission is very interesting.

My current church is very passionate about missions. It isn’t an especially large church (~300 people), but they support a handful of families in various places around the world. But the understanding of world mission is totally different than in UBF.

In UBF, the view I observed is that we are the last hope for the world, and if we don’t go out, no one else will. We are the elite special forces specially chosen to infiltrate the whole world and bring the dark heathen students filled with secularism and post-modernism to God.

In contrast, in my current church, they recognize that we are not well equipped to evangelize and plant churches because we are outsiders, but we can equip, encourage, and support. So rather than going to “convert the heathen” they go to strengthen the local church, build relationships, help provide training, resources, and equip the saints. They view themselves as the equippers and supporters, while UBF missionaries almost viewed themselves as the saviours for the poor lost students.

I think that the distinction makes a huge difference in the attitude of the missionary and in the environment of the mission field. In UBF, world mission was viewed as being our mission, given to us from God. In my current church, it is viewed as God’s mission, one in which we participate with all believers.

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By: gc http://www.ubfriends.org/2013/07/11/12-things-ubf-taught-me-2/#comment-9208 Fri, 12 Jul 2013 02:44:54 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=6448#comment-9208 World mission is still a very important activity for all Christians. I agree with the situation that placed many Korean missionaries in so-called Christian countries in the west. I agree because so many have become secular and/or there has been a backlash with modernity and revealed scandals. (That being said, UBF and any other evangelical organizations would be wise to avoid and stop anything that smells bad.)

About opportunities to be sent out I do remember my chapter director and shepherd and others had desire to go to certain countries and found themselves in North America instead. By default I am a missionary (I cringe when I hear the title applied to me). I would just rather be recognized as serving God in my capacity – forget the title and place of honour.

Now, for Korean readers I am not undermining a certain aspect of world mission – BUT – I must say it: We must demonstrate equal emotional response for importance based on the spreading of God’s word. Because I have always been close to Koreans (pre-ubf), I notice how if someone mentions Korea or even North Korea or especially peaceful reunification it is met with abounding applause. Please keep it controlled!!

If there is anyone who is not even thinking about the Koreas than it is okay, even fantastic and a potential great work of God.

Do not say ‘gc’ does not understand. ‘gc’ understands better than his own wife. My wife is from the south-western coast, thus there was no remembered loss in the family because of the split. But, ‘gc’ is a remnant family from Crimea-Russia. Thanks to internet and facebook I could re-connect after one hundred years and share genealogies with cousins that I have never met face to face. My own grandfather was separated from his sister and parents because of politics (they never saw each other after that) – SO – everyone has a story that can be shared that draw upon emotions.

World mission is about Jesus’ love – not only one or just a few countries.

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