Comments on: A Guilt-free Easter in 2014 http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/ for friends of University Bible Fellowship Wed, 21 Oct 2015 04:34:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.3.1 By: BK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12974 Wed, 23 Apr 2014 10:56:03 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12974 Glad to hear that MJ!

“A gift is not supposed to make you feel guilty although sometimes we feel like that is the “humble” response.”

Indeed and well-said. It is the Spirit’s job to convict us (John 16:8). Our job is the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18).

When I threw out my ubf-speak dictionary, I realized this and many more things. Take the word “humble” for example. Humble means “having or showing a modest or low estimate of one’s own importance.” Jesus was humble because he was God but considered himself nothing. In the past, when I heaped guilt upon guilt on myself, I was actually the opposite of humble, for I became a spectacle-maker, drawing attention to myself and trying to fill my need to feel important.

]]> By: MJ Peace http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12971 Wed, 23 Apr 2014 04:33:08 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12971 This is a very refreshing view of Easter! I like how you said, “Jesus gave himself to death.” It was a willing gift. Actually, at the Easter Conference I attended John Martin in his sermon Friday night said something along the lines of “Christ deeming us worthy to die for.” It sounds like heresy, but I think there is some truth there (We didn’t earn the grace, but Christ did freely gave himself for us). And this past Easter Conference, was one of the first ones I’ve been to where there wasn’t a message on the crucifixion with all the sound effects and details of Jesus’ death. We did have communion and it was lovely. I’m not saying that we should ignore the crucifixion, but view it as a gift, like you said. A gift is not supposed to make you feel guilty although sometimes we feel like that is the “humble” response. There were a lot of things I liked at the conference, like the positive/encouraging atmosphere. Honestly, it was tiring and I saw things that can be improved, but I have no regrets in going. HE has risen, friends:)))

]]> By: BK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12962 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 18:06:46 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12962 “I was just about to ask you to write an article about your trip to Manila!” – See more at: http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12961

Ben, I will be posting forests articles starting tonight. This looks to be a 3 part series. Stay tuned.

]]> By: BK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12961 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 15:28:13 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12961 Looking forward to your report, forests! Another thing that should be universal is definitions. The word “disciple” for example, desperately needs revamping. The ubf people heading toward extinction define “disciple” as “a college student who propagates, defends and justifies the ubf ideology”. Such a person is called “Shepherd X”, and I was one of those.

The word “disciple” in Christianity however means “one who follows Jesus, learning and obeying Jesus’ teachings”. Even with all the disagreements in Christendom about how a disciple should then behave, anyone can clearly see that a “Shepherd X” identity is contradictory to Christian discipleship. That goes a long way to explain the difference you note, forests, because Philippines ubf is one of the redeemed ubf chapters who understand the Christian gospel and have fixed or removed or abandoned the ubf heritage flaws. They are no longer “raising Shepherd X” nor are they demanding members to adopt a cult-identity mask.

]]> By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12960 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 14:28:24 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12960 I was just about to ask you to write an article about your trip to Manila!

Sometimes it is very difficult to get out of the box or the fish bowl that one has been in for an extended period of time.

]]> By: forestsfailyou http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12959 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 14:14:33 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12959 The Philippines was amazing. I will need to write an article. Explaining all the “aberrant” practices to my roommate, he said that he believed that our methods ought to differ from the Philippines because “Americans are different.” I think our universals ought to be universal. If we can judge a ministry by its fruit, St. Louis UBF has produced 1 disciple in 7 years, the Philippines has produced dozens upon dozens.

]]> By: BK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12957 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 21:54:35 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12957 Glad to hear that Darren.

I listened to the first few minutes Ben, and sounds good so far.

]]> By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12956 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 19:26:40 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12956 Thanks, Brian. Welcome back! I was feeling a little bit lonely during your Lent break :-) I will be posting an article regarding my sermon on Luke 24 shortly.

The article on the high suicide rate in S. Korea is sobering. I realize that a high honor/shame society like in parts of Asia and the Middle East has produced more shame and dishonor than honor. I know that no honor can possibly come from any man, yet when one worships the Messiah with repentance, tears, gratitude and love, honor is conferred upon us free of charge trough the triune God!

Happy Easter to all.

]]> By: Darren Gruett http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12955 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 16:50:04 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12955 Thanks for sharing your wonderful Easter experience. I echo your sentiments. Me and my family also had a wonderful Easter, and for me personally, it was a time of repentance and gratitude, and coming newly to the cross and the empty tomb. In a way, I feel like Easter was the start of the new year for me, and I so look forward to what God will do in the days, weeks, and months ahead.

]]> By: big bear http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12954 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 15:07:27 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12954 Brian..I experience the same liberation with family and friends…..in UBF the rationale for Easter is to feel like crap….feel guilty for not feeding sheep, writing testimonies, and not inviting enough people to the Easter conference and feeling guilty for shunning your family and your children….after the Easter conference there is pcd…post conference depression…..Easter is a time to liberated from and free to love family, friends and the whole body of Christ….Jesus death frees us and resurection gives us eternal hope…

]]> By: BK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12953 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 13:13:44 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12953 Thanks Nick and Happy Easter to you and your family!

]]> By: namuehling http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/04/20/a-guilt-free-easter-in-2014/#comment-12952 Mon, 21 Apr 2014 03:15:12 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=7756#comment-12952 I was going to post my typical, goofy post stating that you obviously needed to repent. But then I started thinking that your post is the fruit of repentance. It’s the turning to Jesus for everything and really accepting His sacrifice on your behalf. Happy Easter Brian and all!

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