Comments on: Why Christianity Needs Gay People http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/ for friends of University Bible Fellowship Wed, 21 Oct 2015 04:34:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.3.1 By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15698 Sun, 02 Nov 2014 22:44:22 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15698 Great conversation between Rob Bell and Andrew Wilson on homosexuality within the church:

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By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15695 Sun, 02 Nov 2014 21:26:36 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15695 Some of N.T. Wright’s thoughts on homosexuality:

http://youtu.be/YpQHGPGejKs

and gay marriage:

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15673 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 01:33:18 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15673 Google has a better “gospel” than MacArthur or Keller and much of the church…

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15671 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 01:13:55 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15671 Should have said *fewer* contradictions.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15670 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 01:12:12 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15670 Ben,

“What he said at the end of the video is what the vast majority of faithful law abiding, Bible believing Christians fail to realize, that is, that self-righteousness is what gets you to hell, not homosexuality. I think that’s brilliant.”

I think that’s merely clever human thinking. Self-righteousness does not get anyone into hell. Is there some passage of Scripture that would lead you to that conclusion?

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15668 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 01:07:57 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15668 David,

“But can’t we argue that lawlessness or antinomianism separates one from God as well?”

> Yes we can argue that.

“If he argues that living a homosexual lifestyle goes against the will and design of how God made us, as he does in The Meaning of Marriage, then how can he say that it does not put one in danger of going to hell?”

> Keller can’t actually. He backed himself into a corner.

“That’s why I’m confused; he seems to be contradicting himself.”

> Keller is contradicting himself. At least MacArthur has few contradictions.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15667 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 01:05:50 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15667 David, you are correct. It is tough for me to listen or learn from Keller. It would be easier to listen to MacArthur. Keller seems to believe what MacArthur’s gospel says but doesn’t want to come right out and say it.

The line of thought you present, David, is a good articulation of what we are left with if we leave out the surrender to grace aspect of the gospel. MacArthur clearly has a law-keeping gospel message and leads many into a cocoon. Keller’s version lacks the new wine element that Jesus had in his gospel.

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By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15666 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 00:41:37 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15666 And just to clarify, I am putting forth the statements above for the sake of argument; I don’t espouse those views per se. I simply want to find a consistent and cogent way to reason through this issue.

Personally speaking, I am on the fence but leaning toward the traditional view of the debate. It seems obvious to me that a homosexual orientation is a product of the fall. It just so plainly goes against the teleology or design of mankind.

But still, I would not be one to condemn those living a homosexual lifestyle to hell; I’m struggling as to how to relate to them as fellow image-bearers who are dearly loved and sought after by God. Additionally, because sexual orientation is seen as an intrinsic property of personhood, though this is debatable, one has to approach this issue very wisely and compassionately. As a result, most gays think that because Christians are against homosexuality, then they hate the entirety of who they are. And honestly, many Christians do come of sounding this way (and I’m thoroughly guilty of this). So we have to examine ourselves both from a psychological and theological point of view so as to see why this is so.

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By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15665 Wed, 29 Oct 2014 00:06:56 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15665 Or put another way, if living a homosexual lifestyle is a sin, and if one refuses to address this issue through a gospel paradigm or way of thinking and believing, then could we say that they are living according to what is right in their own eyes? Isn’t this the heart of self-righteousness?

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By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15664 Tue, 28 Oct 2014 23:51:54 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15664 But can’t we argue that lawlessness or antinomianism separates one from God as well? If he argues that living a homosexual lifestyle goes against the will and design of how God made us, as he does in The Meaning of Marriage, then how can he say that it does not put one in danger of going to hell? That’s why I’m confused; he seems to be contradicting himself.

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By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15663 Tue, 28 Oct 2014 22:24:27 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15663 Short response: Keller is using the questioner’s delicate sensitive provocative issue of “will all homosexuals go to hell” and turning that into emphasizing and preaching the gospel.

What he said at the end of the video is what the vast majority of faithful law abiding, Bible believing Christians fail to realize, that is, that self-righteousness is what gets you to hell, not homosexuality. I think that’s brilliant.

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By: David W http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15661 Tue, 28 Oct 2014 21:32:22 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15661 Tim Keller’s explanation of how homosexuality and the gospel intersect is sort of confusing (can anyone decipher what he’s saying?): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTwugmG4hoA

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15646 Tue, 28 Oct 2014 01:36:09 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15646 Just saw this amazing video. Passing this along for any of our friends at ubf or elsewhere who are gay and may be struggling. This is awesome. This expresses all that I want to say in my fourth book:

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By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15633 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 17:44:33 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15633 Similarly, Mohler (and others like him) firmly, strongly and resolutely believes that it is most loving to address and call out what they believe is a sin, punishable by eternal damnation, so that they might repent.

I’m not trying to argue whether or not homosexual union is a sin or not, but simply addressing the fact that those who regard it as a sin will also regard it as being most loving to point that out (lovingly), since many today might no longer regard it as a sin.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15628 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 16:51:27 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15628 But what do you expect them to do, Ben? Should Matthew say, well I’m not really sure if God love gay people. Maybe God really does hate them. Maybe God does want us to exclude them from the blessing of marriage, the right to equal treatment and maybe we should keep the gays out of any real or meaningful leadership role in the church. Maybe God wants me to be open to such things…

I commend Matthew for having convictions. Certitude can be a problem yes, but certainty in the love and grace of God will eventually lead to good things.

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By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15624 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 13:51:25 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15624 Each side should begin by not pressing and insisting their firm belief and position on the other side, especially if done angrily and with indignation, intolerance and impatience. – See more at: http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15623

I was primarily thinking of the “civil,” scholarly exchange between Matthew Vines and Al Mohler. Both sides cite the same verses in the OT and NT and explain them in opposite ways, with both sides insisting that their interpretation is the correct one.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15623 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 12:43:06 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15623 This is a great quote from that article Joe:

“”Rejecting something is easy, but recognizing and giving value to all that is positive, even when dealing with [ambiguous] experiences, is an exercise in intellectual honesty and spiritual charity.”

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15622 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 12:37:53 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15622 Thanks Joe. I like that approach. The local church my family attends really understands the divorce issue quite well.

divorce care

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By: Joe Schafer http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15621 Mon, 27 Oct 2014 12:04:15 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15621 Brian, best wishes for your next writing project.

I ran across a thoughtful article today in the National Catholic Reporter. It’s mainly about how the Catholic church treats people who have been divorced and remarried, not specifically about LGBTQA issues. But I think it applies there as well. The author writes about Jesus: “…his pastoral approach invites us to set legalism aside and consider the vision of the human person that underlies the Gospels’ whole moral praxis.”

http://ncronline.org/blogs/ncr-today/what-does-jesus-really-say-about-marriage-and-divorce

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15619 Sun, 26 Oct 2014 19:34:34 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15619 So then, why does Christianity need gay people? The three big thoughts that have surfaced in my soul the past several years are these: We’ve introduced too much fear into the kingdom of God as it exists today. We’ve lost the meaning of the righteousness Jesus promised to impart to believers. We’ve not drank from the new wine aspect of the gospel of Christ for a very long time.

Gay people can teach the church how to love more deeply, how to regain the purity of righteousness that exceeds that of the law-keepers, and most importantly, how to see the amazing joy that Jesus promised.

Like Pope Francis and numerous bishops and many in the body of Christ, I see the need to return to the theology of liberation, love and peace.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15618 Sun, 26 Oct 2014 17:15:49 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15618 Ben,

“Each side should begin by not pressing and insisting their firm belief and position on the other side, especially if done angrily and with indignation, intolerance and impatience.”

Gay people have already done what you say. We cannot simply begin again, for the debate already began. Still they are “on the outside” and laws exist to put them in jail or be executed in parts of the world.

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By: BrianK http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15617 Sun, 26 Oct 2014 17:12:51 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15617 Ben, I changed the picture on my article, as the picture I chose first was not appropriate.

What would you see in my article that is “throwing stones”? I have no intention of throwing stones, so please correct my blindspot if I did so.

Recently the Catholic Synod expressed these words that ring true to me. I know the Synod ended up taking out this language, but my book aims to explain what these gifts and talents entail:

“…gay people have “gifts and talents to offer the Christian community.”

The document also said “Without denying the moral problems connected to homosexual unions it has to be noted that there are cases in which mutual aid to the point of sacrifice constitutes a precious support in the life of the partners.”

source

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By: Ben Toh http://www.ubfriends.org/2014/10/25/why-christianity-needs-gay-people/#comment-15612 Sat, 25 Oct 2014 15:44:13 +0000 http://www.ubfriends.org/?p=8473#comment-15612 I fully agree that the LGBTQA community “have suffered the lash of countless Christian rejections.” This clearly must change and absolutely needs to change. The big question is how. This is my simplistic rumination.

Older Christians (and some younger Christians) say and believe that Christians must be loving, not condemning and welcoming of the gay community, though they still firmly believe and will not change from their position that marriage is between a man and a woman.

Younger Christians (and some older Christians) will affirm the former, but insist that marriage can also be between those of the same sex.

Based on each side’s understanding and interpretation of the same Bible verses, the first group cannot conceive of gay marriages as strongly as the second group firmly believes that it is OK.

I think that the gap between these two positions are huge and perhaps presently insurmountable. What I believe first needs to happen is to not throw stones at the other side. Each side should begin by not pressing and insisting their firm belief and position on the other side, especially if done angrily and with indignation, intolerance and impatience. This, I believe is happening at present, and is a horrible testimony to the watching world.

If we can’t begin by not doing what we should not do (throw stones at each other), then it does not appear that any resolution or progress would be forthcoming any time soon. Each side will simply more deeply entrench themselves in their own camp.

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