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Counteracting the Abuse

IdentitySnatchers-CoverFrontThanksgiving. Christmas. We are now entering the final 7 weeks of 2015. As we share in mourning for France, I renew the call for everyone to stand up against abusive ideologies and to stop enabling the purveyors of any kind of religious system that covers up abuse. What is the ubf answer for terrorism such as we just witnessed? They say “just study the Bible” and everything will be okay. And yet their system of “going back to the Bible” fosters abuse of many kinds. For ubfers, these last seven weeks of the year is the most intensive season of indoctrination and abuse.

The financial abuse kicks into high gear as babysitting money balloons to account for all the extended and additional meetings, practices and rehearsals for the end-of-the-year CWS (Christmas Worship Service) drama and dance productions. The pressure to offer high amounts of money sets in as well, limiting the family Christmas presents and celebrations in favor of showing loyalty to UBF. The psychological abuse, from my experience, hits an annual high during these last 7 weeks. UBFers are directed to spend much time reflecting on how thankful they are for their shepherds and that one chance meeting on campus years ago. Their minds are bound once again to the manger scene, and reminded of how much Jesus and Mary resemble the UBF leaders. Once again their theology of sacrifice is deeply ingrained into the souls of ubf members.

To counteract this prime time abuse season, I will be sharing quotes from my book, Identity Snatchers. And to kick off the series, I am offering Identity Snatchers for free on Kindle, one day only, Sunday 11/15. I believe the most effective way to counteract the abuse at UBF is by exposing the UBF lifestyle and by deconstructing UBFism.

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Christ the End of the Law

passion3As my passion for theology continues to ebb and flow, at times I am inspired by Charles H. Spurgeon. This week I read his sermon number 1325, entitled “Christ the End of the Law”. I want to share this with you as today’s Sunday musing. This sermon is a major reason why I still consider myself a Christian, and why the desire for seminary stays with me, haunting me at times. If what Spurgeon says is true, then count me in.

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How Do You Feel?

trFrom time to time I have had the opportunity to take an Emotional Intelligence test or “EQ” test. This is like an “IQ” test, but instead of gauging a person’s intellect, the EQ test gauges a person’s emotional aptitude. I was stunned a couple years ago to find that my EQ was low–so low I was in the “needs much help” category. This opened my eyes to a lot of issues. After decades of supposed world class training, I was severely lacking in the realm of understanding and expressing emotions. I was further stunned to discover that almost all actual world class leaders talk about being emotionally healthy!

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Perspective Matters

per1Recently the building at my workplace had Leon Keer paint one of his famous floor paintings in the lobby. This artwork is simply amazing! I noticed when walking through the lobby that the place I stand makes a huge difference in what I see. The painting looked horrible from the side. How can this be art? But when I stood in the “stand here” spot, my mind was blown! I think it is the same with the Bible. When we do not have the correct perspective, the world around us looks odd. Perspective is why ten people can look at the same text or the same object or the same theological concept, and produce ten different conclusions.

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