{"id":3290,"date":"2017-09-11T00:03:36","date_gmt":"2017-09-11T05:03:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ubfriends.net\/?p=3290"},"modified":"2017-09-10T15:06:33","modified_gmt":"2017-09-10T20:06:33","slug":"how-to-prove-that-a-ubf-chapter-directormissionary-is-a-liar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ubfriends.org\/ubfriends2015\/how-to-prove-that-a-ubf-chapter-directormissionary-is-a-liar\/","title":{"rendered":"How to prove that a UBF chapter director\/”missionary” is a liar"},"content":{"rendered":"

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4 [Behavioral] Foolproof Ways to\u00a0Spot a\u00a0Liar<\/h1>\n

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4. Liars avoid mentioning themselves.<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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When liars distort the truth, they tend to\u00a0avoid talking about themselves. They speak or\u00a0write about others, specifically in\u00a0the third person, as\u00a0if\u00a0putting distance between themselves and their lies.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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3. A\u00a0liar\u2019s speech attitude is\u00a0negative.<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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Liars are usually negative because they feel subconsciously guilty for their own lies.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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2. A\u00a0liar\u2019s explanations are as\u00a0simple as\u00a0possible.<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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Liars normally explain everything in\u00a0simple terms because their brain refuses to\u00a0think of\u00a0a\u00a0complicated lie. Judgment or\u00a0evaluation are complex things that are difficult to\u00a0calculate.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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1. A\u00a0liar uses confusing wording.<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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Despite simple explanations, liars use complicated and intricate sentence structure, inserting excess words and insignificant but plausible-sounding details that help them inflate their deceit.<\/p>\n

… a list of 7 things\/phrases that liars usually say in order to avoid detection. [Note: UBF “leaders” and “missionaries” may not always use these exact phrases but something similar]:<\/p>\n

1. \u201cIT CAN\u2019T BE PROVED\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

This totally suggests that they have committed a mistake but since there is no proof for the same, they will not admit it.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cTHAT\u2019S ABOUT IT\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When someone consciously withholds information, they will be careful with their words. If you notice someone using this phrase, know that they might be lying or keeping something from you. If not, then they wouldn\u2019t have used the word \u201cabout\u201d.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cI DON\u2019T REMEMBER THIS\/THAT\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Memory lapses are quite common for liars. You must have heard that one of the most challenging things about lying is that you have to keep track of your lies. If by chance you catch their lie, they will simply deny having any memory of saying or doing something. It helps them cover their deception. Quite convenient, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

4. \u201cI HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU\u2019RE TALKING ABOUT\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

This is known as out-right denial. People who are liars attempt to deny all at once. You know that they are aware of what you are talking about, but they will not own up to their falsehood. It is very hard to make such people accept their own lies.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cYOU ARE ACCUSING\u00a0ME<\/em>?\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Oh, the innocent expressions when liars say this little phrase! That mocking smile on their face is just unbearable. They use it to turn the tables on you in order to make you look like a fool who is suspicious of them. By doing this they will switch on your defense mode and the whole purpose of the conversation changes. Do not fall for this!<\/p>\n

6. \u201cNOW WHY WOULD I DO THAT?\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Instead of replying to your questions or comments, they will start cross questioning you. This is the way in which they trap others so that they do not have to answer anything. If they start asking for reasons, they are definitely lying. They will try to stall you as much as they can from getting into the depth of the argument.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cDO YOU REALLY THINK\u00a0I\u00a0<\/em>COULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS\/THAT?\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Again, the whole burden of the argument falls on you with this little question. The victim card is once again employed and this time they are using it to make\u00a0you<\/em>\u00a0feel guilty of something you didn\u2019t even do. It does work in some cases, as much as I hate to admit.<\/p>\n

Deceptive people could go to any extent to keep their lies hidden from the world. They will never own their mistakes and wrongdoings. Trying to make them even acknowledge it is a Herculean task in itself! If someone says these things to you, you should know how to respond.<\/p>\n

For example, if someone says that they doesn\u2019t remember doing or saying a particular thing (point 3) you can ask them what exactly do they remember. An honest person will answer you without hesitance, while a liar would bid his\/her time cooking up fictional tales of wonderland.<\/p>\n

Th[ese] are 14 [more] ways to catch a liar:<\/p>\n

1. Liars usually make too much or too little eye contact. If someone is incapable to look you in the eyes or is staring you down, that person may be trying to cover his skeletons<\/strong><\/p>\n

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2. Liars tend to speak without using contractions. ex: \u201cI DID NOT\u201d have an affair with another woman<\/strong><\/p>\n

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3. A deceiver will often show signs of discomfort by turning away from you<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Turn<\/p>\n

4. The body language of a phony is revealed by: rapid blinking, dilated pupils, pitch changes, less smiling, shrugging shoulders, fidgeting, and crossed arms<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Shrug\"<\/p>\n

5. Unless they\u2019re professional actors or\u00a0psychopaths<\/a>, liars tend to stutter and hesitate when they are speaking<\/strong><\/p>\n

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6. Liars often provide additional information without really need to do so<\/strong><\/p>\n

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7. A liar will use your words to answer a question<\/strong><\/p>\n

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8. A guilty person will get defensive, whereas an innocent person will often go on the offensive<\/strong><\/p>\n

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9. A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, a drink, etc.) between themselves and you<\/strong><\/p>\n

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10. A liar\u2019s timing tends to lag between gestures\/expressions and words<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Lag\"<\/h6>\n

11. Oftentimes liars give inconsistent explanations<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\"MissingtheTarget\"<\/p>\n

12. They also over-emphasize details. When people are trying to avoid telling the truth, they often fo cus on an obscure point instead of the key issue<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"responsive-details\"<\/p>\n

13. Watch out for frequent touching of the face, throat, and mouth. For example, a liar might scratch his\/her nose or behind the ear<\/strong><\/p>\n

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14. Be wary of pursed mouths. While lying, a person may set his or her mouth in a narrow line<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Bonus: Eyes don\u2019t lie<\/h3>\n<\/div>\n
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\u00a9 Pixabay<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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If\u00a0you can\u2019t notice any of\u00a0the above signals but are still in\u00a0doubt about whether you\u2019re being lied\u00a0to, look closely into the eyes of\u00a0your opponent. Lying makes\u00a0us nervous, which results in\u00a0an\u00a0increased heartbeat and pupil dilation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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