The title says it at all. This is essential in leaving UBF for good. For UBF has made harsh efforts to make you a clone.
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It’s that time of year again
The new semester begins! Watch out for UBF on campus!
Yes it’s back to school! For K-12 the semester has already start. For college campus & universities the semester will (if it hasn’t already) start at the end of January or at the latest the beginning of February. There are certain things you need to be informed about.
Five Things That Helped My Journey out of UBF
**was originally submitted on UBF: Ur Being Flat on 9/30/16**
Leaving an organization like UBF is often a messy, complicated process. The level of emotional and spiritual manipulation that one has experienced by the time they are compelled to leave can lead to stress, anxiety, fear and confusion. Cult dogma that has been grafted in and emotionally hardened over the course of years is not easily tossed aside, and it is not simple to sort out the truth from the twisting. Am I really leaving God’s will? Does this mean that I’ve compromised in my faith? But what about all the good things that have happened in the ministry?
Therefore, when the time comes that the Spirit prompts one to leave an unhealthy church, it is the start of a long, bumpy process. Here are some things that helped me along the way.
The Danger of Magical and Wishful Thinking
When I reflect back on my time in UBF, comparing it with the time before and after, one thing that stands out is the custom of magical and wishful thinking, something that is not my normal rational way of thinking. Recently I remembered one such occasion and started understanding the psychological mechanisms at work. I thought I should write this up, even though I generally don’t want to write much about UBF anymore.
How to leave UBF for good—Deprogramming Process
**controversial issues will be mentioned in this article**
**This may be a sensitive topic**
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Reformation vs Arrestment
Silence is NOT golden
I have founded/rediscovered articles, journals, reports, etc on people standing up to UBF. UBF attempted to silence them by but in the end failed to do so.
With the material I created a blog post compiling them together and organizing them mainly by chapter. In doing so I realized that I needed to make not one but six parts.