This is the epilogue. In the final article I will talk about what to do now after leaving UBF for good.
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A response to the viewers of ubfriends.net– Follow Up
How to leave UBF for good– Children of chapter directors (2nd gens)
This article will be a bit different from the previous articles in the series. For this one won’t be so much how to leave for 2nd gens but rather why you (2nd gens) should leave.
Cartoons, Cartoons, Cartoons
Hi everyone. This article will be basically a list of suggestions/recommendations of cartoons shows. (Note: I’m a 90’s kids so many of the items on this list were made/ran during the 1990’s and/or to the mid 2000’s.
Christian Leaders Can Be Told They Are Wrong– Follow Up article
Before proceeding check out Ben Toh’s article first http://ubfriends.net/christians-leaders-can-be-told-they-are-wrong/
In this article we’ll take a look at former UBF chapter director Peter Chang’s letter to UBF director Chang Woo Lee in which he not only told Lee that he was wrong but also showed him how he was wrong.
How to leave UBF for good– UBF Married Couples
“Marriage by faith, as practiced in UBFism, is to be avoided at all costs. It is a vile manipulative control tactic from hell.“– Wikigoat
This quote is very good advice. However you must be wondering: What about those who are already in an arranged marriage in UBF? What can they do to leave? These are very important questions that will be answered in this article. But before that there is something else that needs to be addressed.
Authoritarian Abusers Instill Fear, Infantilize Those Around Them
Authoritarian abusers found in cults and totalist groups operate by instilling fear and infantilize those they abuse. They have no place in the church, but in UBF, they are normalized and accepted.